A complex problem –generation gap 一个复杂的问题-代沟

Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world. Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers. The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off. Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried. They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about. Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies. Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative. They may talk with their friends more often than their parents. In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem.
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect. The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. Second, listen more than talk. It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer. At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves. But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe. And then they will come to understand their parents.
今天，代沟现象”已经渐渐成为全世界的问题了。经历的时间不同，所以导致父母和儿童之间在品味上的差异，以及处理问题的方法上的差异。
这种情况可以更容易发生在青少年身上。原因读他们是年轻的，他们有强烈的激情追求自己的自由，他们想要展现自我。然后，难怪他们和他们的父母之间经常出现矛盾争吵，这总是使他们 的父母很担心。他们几乎没有什么可以明白他们孩子在想什么。因为他们穿奇怪的衣服，听嘈杂的音乐和甚至与有纹身的然后全身上下穿着名牌的朋友在城镇闲逛。然而，在青少年的眼中，他们的父母很保守而且过时。他们与他们的朋友谈话，可能比跟他们的父母谈话的更多。用一个字来形容，代沟就是关键问题。
说真的，如何打破代沟呢？在我看来，第一，要表示尊重。相互尊重可以避免冲突。第二，更多的倾听。这是毫无疑问的，它是一个非常有效的来保持谈话的时间的方式。最后，保持幽默感，这可以使谈话非常友好。
尽管这一代的父母可能会担心他们的孩子和他们之间的代沟。但我们都知道，随着时间的流逝，孩子会长大变成熟。然后他们会明白他们的父母。