爱的礼赞：把最美的语言都献给了爱（2）

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。
　　 i never let you not to know my existence, but i just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. sometimes, i just wonder, we are from different waters, although i admire your world, i will be drowned if i get close to you. 　　
22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。
　　when someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. 　　
23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。

　　 how it feels when you are loved by the one you love? how could it be like? if you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises. 　　
24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
　　when you are young, you may want several love experiences. but as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. you need time to know, to forgive and to love. all this needs a very big mind. 　　
25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

　　what's the accomplishment of love? if marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? when i begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love. 　
26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。
　　people are used to born in the stars. they just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. the life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love. 　　
27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟
　　the love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. the love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread. 　　

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
　　why to ask so much when you are in love? if you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. the mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future. 　　
29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。
　　do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? no, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. that's the sourest thing. 　　
30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。

　　when tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. this is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. it is the truth that we've all grown up. and we become different. 　　
31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。
　　when two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. but why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? every time when i was upset or tired, i can only kiss by myself. 　　
32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。
　　love is not about running into each other in crowds. love is an impossible meeting. for example, i am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. we just fall in love accidentally. 　　

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫做恋爱。
　　the one you love also loves you. this is a miracle. and the god names this as falling in love with each other. 　　
34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。
　　the life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. during the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. it matters not even if we get wrong answers. 　　
35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

　　when you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. if the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you. 　　
36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。
　　 the heart of woman is a glass holding water. it is full but seems to have nothing inside. 　　
37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。
　　we always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father. 　　
38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
　　if you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. 　　
39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。

　　it's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability. 　　
40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。
　　loneliness is different from being alone. being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. and the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone.