爱的礼赞：把最美的语言都献给了爱（5）

81．每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。
when every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.　　
82．不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。
to keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.　　
83．宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。
to forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.　　
84．人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。

people will always change. some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.　　
85．事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。
the fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. but some learn to forget, but others insist.　　
86．不要期待完美的男人，不是因为你期待不到，而是根本没有完美的男人。
never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.　　
87．在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。
in this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.　　

88.偶尔要回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。
sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.　　
89．如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。
if you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything.　　
90．我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。
.i don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. conversely, i think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. and then be a simple man.　　

91．你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。
u r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more.　　
92．无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。
no matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life. 　　
93．我一直相信，在这世界上存在着一个地方，一个让现实抓不到你的地方。在那里，梦想离你很近，很近，就像我相信，在城市里来往的人群中，总有一个，会让你记得一辈子。直到你咽下最后一口气。你一眼就认出她。我时常做同一个梦，在梦里，我总是不停地跑，不停地寻找。他们说要到那个地方，要找到那个人，你必须比别人多一点勇气，多一些幸运。你可能会付出冒险的代价。你可能会死在半途上。你敢不敢去？有一个地方，你去了就不想离开，有一种人，你一辈子只会遇见一次。

i always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. there, the dream is very close. just as i believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. you can recognize her immediately. i often have the same dream. in the dream, i am running and searching. they say i shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. maybe i have to take a risk, coz maybe i will die in the way of searching. so dare you to go? there is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life.　　
94．一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
in your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years. 　　

钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。
love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. all of these are for sake of you. and i will never regret for it.　　
95．如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。
if not for you, i must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. but for you, every day i will dream the most beautiful apart. because you use your whole life to love me, and i feel free. my life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. i can hear that, but i can still smile only as long as i see you sleeping by my side.

96．生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。
the most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. but soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats. 　　
97．这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。
the most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart.　
98．自由不是让你想做什么就做么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。
freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do.　　

99．我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。
i thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. however, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. in such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.　　
100．曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。
don’t forget the things you once you owned. treasure the things you can’t get. don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory. 　　
101．我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。

i love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. only in this way can i know what will not be abandoned by time. for example, when you love someone, changes are all around. then i step backward and watching it silently, then i see the true feelings.